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09/12/07

Shinzo Abe resigns ... good!

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in Adoption News Blog at 08:20 am , 410 words, 149 views  
Categories: Breaking News
Japanese Prime Minister Shinzo Abe has announced that he's resigning.

Not that it will make one bit of an impression, but I'm glad to hear it. I have close to zip interest in the politics of Japan, but Mr. Abe's attitude toward adoption ticked me off from the gate and I'll be happy to see the back of him. I'm pretty sure, however, that whoever replaces him will be just about as negative toward the option of adoption for kids or families.

It's a Japanese thing, you see, to look down the nose at adoption. As this admittedly dated, but by no means no longer valid report illustrates, there's a true and historic aversion to adoption in Japan.

And as I wrote recently, the antipathy is apparently quite pronounced in the Prime Minister and his wife.

A childless couple, the Abes have revealed that fertility treatments were a part of their lives for some time, and Mrs. Abe confessed she, "felt strong pressure to bear children because her husband is a third-generation politician."

She said she considered adoption, although it's not mentioned if this was a consideration also for her husband, but "wasn't able to go through with it mentally ...".

Those few Japanese who do adopt are known to be very quick to cover their tracks and secret away all evidence of building a family this way. Until 1988, however, this was almost impossible as all official documents of an adopted child were compiled in such a way that it amounted to the same as having "adopted" stamped all over everything in big, bold letters.

Because of the shame tied to adoption, it's reported that adoptions often occur surreptitiously with, "children handed off privately between families, sometimes with the help of a doctor, lawyer or broker who - for a price - will fake a birth certificate ...", a true recipe for disaster.

''It's all done in secret,'' she said. ''Adoption is not the Japanese way.'' As a result, she said, some people go to great lengths - even moving to a place where they are not known, and feigning pregnancies with pillows - to conceal an adoption.

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So with little understanding and no regard for the politics of Japan, I'm sitting here watching the sunset from my island a heck of a long way away from the land of the rising sun and thinking: Sayonara, Abe-san ... I hope your replacement thinks better of the parent-less children in your country.

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Comment from: condo-mom [Member] Email
Sandra --

We have some very good friends who lived in Japan for 7 years and ran an adoption agency there. They did a lot of work getting Japanese orphans out of orphanages (before the yakuza got them) and into gaijin (foreign) families -- but were not so successful getting them into Japanese homes. 2 of their teen daughters are from Japan (each is 1/2 Japanese) and while they have their challenges, it's great to see them growing up in a forever-family with understanding and opportunity. An older daughter was adopted as an adult, and truly rescued from a bleak future involving the yakuza.

Rachel
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/07 @ 08:34
Comment from: miriam [Member] Email · http://www.growingjwards.blogspot.com
Nerve: Hit!

If you spend any time in Japan you will hear a lot about the rich history of contradictions in society. One example often recited involves people thinking of the group first and quietly avoiding any strife during the day, and then getting wild and crazy while on office drinking parties at night.

Another big one that you often hear about is the "homogenous" nature of their people and yet there have always been genetic influxes from neighboring nations and they do in fact have a race called the Ainu in northern Japan similar to Inuit (Eskimo) in North America.

But that myth of homogeny prevails and people to this day pay large sums of money to find out if a daughter's suitor has anything dark in his family tree; Korean blood (how they even distinguish that one baffles me), low-caste, even mental illness or poverty, etc... Being of truly mixed race automatically complicates life there. In 2000, realtors had signs in their doors that read, "No prostitutes, No foreigners, No dogs". A Japanese person of mixed race is considered foreign, as are full-blood Japanese folks raised elsewhere (often Brazil) who return later in life.

Basically I think this is about racism or more accurately purism, and reflects a sadly antiquated way of thinking in an extremely modern country. Maybe this next generation...
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/07 @ 15:25
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Thanks so much for the personal perspectives.

From the news reports I'm hearing, it sounds like I'm not the only one happy to see Abe out, but changes in Japan are still very slow to come.

It has always seemed odd to me that a society so quick to embrace all that's new in technology is so slow to accept social progress. Japanene culture has always been a dichotomy, though.
PermalinkPermalink 09/12/07 @ 21:55
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