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11/01/07

National Adoption Month: White House decree

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in Adoption News Blog at 02:20 am , 359 words, 215 views  
Categories: November 2007
As proclaimed by the President, today marks the first day of National Adoption Month, thirty days cumulatively singled out by the White House to "recognize the adoptive and foster families who have shared their homes and hearts with children in need", and to encourage more families to consider adoption.

Unlike many who put adoptive parents in league with the devil, insist on using the word "adopters" to address mothers and fathers, and strongly suggest that a world without hopeful adoptive families would see no need for adoptions at all, the White House statement unabashedly claims that: Families who adopt show the generous spirit of our Nation.

The President's degree calls upon, "all Americans to observe this month with appropriate programs and activities to honor adoptive families."

Most certain to get up the noses of those who would refuse to acknowledge the good of adoption for fear of losing any grip on the raggedy bone that are the flaws in the system, the entire month of November will grate. We can fully expect to see "I hate adoption" themes in full force as factions pick away at one bit or another, all the time ignoring the fact that there are millions of children in the world for whom adoption would be not only a life saver, but a life giver -- a miracle of love, security and unimaginable comfort.

Jumping to the head of the queue of nastiness, the British news organization The Telegraph with this story, offensive in more ways than I have the energy to count this morning ... 'adopters' is the word they use repeatedly ... that represents this month-long event thusly:

Right now, there is something of an ongoing sales push: November is National Adoption Awareness Month, which aims to get more Americans to choose adoption, both as buyers and as sellers.

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(You may recall that this publication was the subject of no little discussion in September when they ran a trashy piece on Guatemalan adoption, then took the completely unprofessional step of changing their own headline when called to task.)

So, to all who celebrate adoption for the good it brings, best wishes for a great month.

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: sadie77@fuse.net [Member] Email
I am a father of 4. Two children from my first marriage, one child from my second marriage, and one child that I adopted as a step-parent. Hannah my adopted daughter has known only me as her father but does know that her biological father exists. She is age nine and her biological father wants to start to have some contact. I am against this because I feel like it will be very traumatic to Hannah. I am confused and anxious about what to do. I know that at the present time Hannah is a well adjusted, happy child. Her biological father signed his rights away 4 yrs ago and has never showed interest before recently. He also has 2 daughters from another marriage that he lives with. I feel like he is feeling guilty for abandoning Hannah and wants to be back in her life for selfish reasons. I want what is best for Hannah. I am scared that she will be opened up to a lot of pain and hurt if he continues to push the issue. If there is anything that you could refer me to that would help make sense of this I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you for your time in reading this comment.

Sincerely, Brian Wilson
PermalinkPermalink 11/01/07 @ 02:59
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Brian,
I am moving this conversation to email for the sake of your privacy.

Others are, of course, welcome to add their contributions here.
PermalinkPermalink 11/01/07 @ 03:38
Comment from: Sunbonnet Sue [Member] Email
first question that pops into my mind is: what has changed about his situation/feelings? A well adjusted, happy child takes a lot of work to achieve, and can be difficult to regain.
PermalinkPermalink 11/01/07 @ 17:38
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