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08/29/07

Foster care: some good, some bad, some stupid

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in Adoption News Blog at 03:28 am , 470 words, 174 views  
Categories: August 2007
I wrote yesterday about steps being taken in Kentucky to improve the lot of children in foster care in the state, and added a suggestion for urging your state to follow suit.

Today, it's South Carolina in the spotlilght, as Gov. Mark Sanford appoints people to his Children in Foster Care and Adoption Services Task Force, a group he created to find ways to improve the foster care and adoption systems in the state.

If you're in South Carolina and want to get involved, write to the governor's office to voice support for the effort, then find out what you can do to help make the changes happen.

There's trouble in Kansas, where a social worker and the foster parents of eight kids are accused of smoking pot during a home visit.

Holey-moley! (Notice I avoided the classic "Holey smoke".) How stupid are these people? In addition to the other 7 kids, there's a 17-year-old foster child in the house, and they're toking up on a regular basis -- sometimes even WITH the 17-year-old? Sheesh.

And for a very interesting take on the climate that surrounds issues of children in America, kids caught in the foster system especially,this post from a blogger called Prairie Guy sums things up well, but suitably with an uncomfortable pinch.

Taking from the CNN show "The Situation Room" a segment centered on a correspondent's reactions to the Michael Vick dogfighting hoopla that's been hitting the news like trapped miners, Prairie Guy is outraged over the outrage.

Not that dogfighting doesn't horrify the socks off him and everyone else ... not at all ... it's just that it all begs the question he poses simply and eloquently: Where is the outrage for our kids?

His list of questions --- Where is the outrage WHEN kids are abused, neglected or killed by parents, WHEN the foster care system lets them down, WHEN kids age out of the system never having had a chance for a family? -- is backed and followed by numbers and hard facts, and his plea for attention ... for outrage on behalf of the children ... should be heard.

If nothing changes... by the year 2020:

Nearly 14 million more reported cases of child abuse and neglect will be
confirmed;

22,500 children will die of abuse or neglect, most before their fifth
birthday;

An additional 9,000,000 children will spend some time in foster care

300,000 more children will age out of our foster care system unprepared
to become productive members of our socety

99,000 former foster youth, who aged out of the system, will experience
homelessness.

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Yes, Prairie Guy was a foster child. His blog is titled "Reflections of a Foster Youth from one who spent 18 years / 16 moves in this dreadfully broken system".

Read him and learn, and wonder, too, why dog fights prime the media outrage pump in ways abused children don't.

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
Maybe people just get overwhelmed when it comes to child abuse
Or perhaps it's yet another thing folks just don't want to deal with. Like the fact that love isn't enough to erase years of abuse.
There's so much people don't want to deal with, it's easier to focus on dogs.
Perhaps they want to pretend that child abuse doesn't exist, especially forms of raising children that are probably abusive if not bordering on abuse....
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 06:54
Comment from: Julie [Member] Email · http://special-needs.adoptionblogs.com/
Chromesthesia makes a valid point. I think child abuse is too big, too personal and too scary for many people to confront. I think it hits too close to home.

I also think that because Michael Vick is a huge celebrity, it makes the dog fighting easy to latch on to. Our media (and the public) focus on high profile sound bites...not necessarily the stories underneath them.

PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 11:00
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Are you suggesting that the media (and the public) may not be too bright?

I worry that it's more a matter of over-exposure that's lessened the impact ... too many cases of dead babies and abused children ... and numbed people beyond the scope of absorbing the reality. A bit like bombings in Bagdad ... if you're not personally involved somehow, the news slides off like a greasy film.
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 11:11
Comment from: MamaS [Member] Email
I started as a foster parent for children but I burned out quickly when I saw children returned over and over to abusive and neglectful homes. One caseworker said plainly she would never remove a child permanently until the third serious injury (broken bone, fractured skull or burn). So I became a foster home for rescue dogs -- during a 10 year period I fostered over 300 dogs and only ONE time was a dog ever returned to his/her original owner. The laws protecting dogs are enforced far more strictly than those "protecting" children
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 11:57
Comment from: Chromesthesia [Member] Email
Makes no sense!
Until a THIRD injury? A child shouldn't even have a first injury let alone a second or third.

I really want to figure out how to change things! I don't mean just lip service from politicians, I mean really getting them to change things, a voter's block? Getting the religious right involved? (Even though I don't like them) Just pressuring Democrats and Republicans, judges, social works, anyone who can make a difference to do something...
I can't figure out what to do...
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 16:40
Comment from: AdoptionBlogs Editor [Member] Email · http://editor.adoptionblogs.com
Well, the anti abortion folks hold big ugly photos up when they protest. Would it take photos of battered and bruised children before people get it?
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 21:11
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